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How to forgive yourself for everything

April 7, 2015 by Julette Leave a Comment

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Hello My Friend,

Forgiving yourself  – daily – is necessary!

Easier said than done right?

I know, words are so easy to say and truths to spout.  But how do you really forgive yourself, if you don’t already have a habit of forgiveness?

An assumption is being made here and here it is: I am assuming that you believe that forgiveness is right and good; that it is the way to live that brings peace and joy to your life and those around you.  This is my assumption as I suggest the following.

Forgiving yourself is possible when you have a desire to or, you already love yourself. So are you “feeling” worthy of love – yours or someone else’s? Are you loving you?

If not, stay here for a minute and create a miracle. Change your mindset about that.  Just do it!

  • Decide that loving yourself is all that really makes sense.
  • Decide that you are worthy of love because you exist. Period.

It might be different for you but for me:

  • I think of God and the power of love.

  • I think of the life of Jesus and how much He endured because of his love for me.

  • I think of the healing and miraculous power of love, which is God and I wonder how can I be anything but lovable when I was created by, with and for love!

ONCE you are clear about being a magnificent creation of love, forgiving yourself becomes a more natural outcome.

Not forgiving yourself for mistakes causes pain, guilt, stress, anxiety – why would you do that to someone you love?

Mistakes are common; they occur everyday, big ones and little ones.  They are a fact of life.  And NO ONE goes  through life without making them.

Mistakes are HOW we learn and how we GROW.

Thinking you are perfect and  mistakes are not forgivable is egotistical.

So get over yourself and accept your humanity – which by definition means you WILL be making mistakes!  Then, move on from there and accept how lovable you are.

What’s the obvious next step?

FORGIVE yourself for all you have done or not done to this point SO THAT you can move on to live a life of love and wellness.

Without this forgiveness of self, you will not have the life of your dreams. With it, your lightness of spirit and loving, creative mindset will make all things possible.

So I urge you to put this message into action and release all the baggage: love yourself and fly ♥~~~

 

Wishing you an abundance of love, light and joy,

Julette Millien 

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Filed Under: Forgiveness, Forgiving self, LOVE Tagged With: forgiving mistakes, forgiving self, loving self, Mistakes

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