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Physical Abuse is Sometimes Just the “Tip of the Iceberg”

June 4, 2014 by Julette Leave a Comment

Abuse

Hello Dear One!

When I shared this on Facebook recently, the response was overwhelming – into my inbox that is. People are ashamed, they live in a dark place with abuse. That is very sad for me.

I’m sending this to my email list because my spirit led to do so. It did last week, I obeyed and many were comforted, and a few even took concrete steps to take charge of their life. REALLY wonderful to observe! 🙂

This message is being sent with a prayer that it reaches exactly who needs it. Please feel free to share if this is not for you.

If you are in an abusive relationship it’s essential that you become familiar  with the signs and know that you are LOVED, VALUABLE and STRONGER than you think. THIS is the reality…not this…

Abused people often think it’s their fault and remain ashamed – because their abuser has been successful in degrading and devaluing them. BUT THAT IS  NOT REAL.

You are not ‘at fault’ or have anything to be ashamed of. People are responsible for what THEY DO.

Take these steps – don’t wait until you “feel” ready, just go out on faith and trust these steps will help you:

 

  1. Ask God for help and accept how loved you are – by God
  2. Begin to love yourself again – and forgive yourself for whatever mistakes you think you have made along the way to get you where you are today…
  3. Speak your truth ( write it, share with a counselor, spiritual mentor or friend, speak out loud what you wrote) and free yourself from the chains of darkness

 

You’ll be amazed at how much stronger you will feel and will be after these first few steps. Then seek the practical steps you need to take to remove yourself – or the person, from the situation. You’ll be amazed at how rapidly the solutions appear when your mind and heart are ready for them.

Sending you love and prayers ~~♥~~

Julette Millien

~♥~

Filed Under: Abuse, Facing Challenges Tagged With: Abuse, God loves you, live your truth

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